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Re: I Need Advice....I Met Someone Online BLR #384516 09/14/09 11:07 PM
Joined: Feb 2008 Posts: 1,153 Naperville, Illinois cyberbud Best Friend
cyberbud Best Friend Joined: Feb 2008 Posts: 1,153 Naperville, Illinois	I have to differ with the above approach. I would be very straight forward and business like. I need to see a valid ID, driver's license, passport, state ID (in even to no driver's license). If he has a problem with it or hesitates walk away. These things don't always turn out great. Someone in my family married someone they met online two years ago. They are getting a divorce. There was much more to his past then he let on. Be very careful. Kathy "Many have forgotten this truth...You remain responsible, forever, for what you have tamed."

Re: I Need Advice....I Met Someone Online cyberbud #384520 09/15/09 12:14 AM
Joined: Sep 2009 Posts: 7 L Liyla OP New Member
OP Liyla New Member L Joined: Sep 2009 Posts: 7	oh you mean when we meet get him to show me some id and stuff? but ya my aunt met someone off the net too and she's been living with him for a few years now and she seems really happy so im not too worried that this guy is lieing or anything...and my friend doesnt think so either and she has had experiance with meeting them off the net....shes seen the way he talks and stuff and even she thinks he's one of the good ones...shes also the one whos gonna be with me when we do meet

Re: I Need Advice....I Met Someone Online cyberbud #384521 09/15/09 12:50 AM
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Caribbean mom :) Unregistered C	Originally Posted By: cyberbud I have to differ with the above approach. I would be very straight forward and business like. I need to see a valid ID, driver's license, passport, state ID (in even to no driver's license). If he has a problem with it or hesitates walk away. These things don't always turn out great. Someone in my family married someone they met online two years ago. They are getting a divorce. There was much more to his past then he let on. Be very careful. Kathy I agree with this. If he is upset by your request, he is not a respectful guy.

Re: I Need Advice....I Met Someone Online Liyla #384522 09/15/09 12:54 AM
Joined: Dec 2004 Posts: 22,697 UK PDM True Blue Soulmate
PDM True Blue Soulmate Joined: Dec 2004 Posts: 22,697 UK	Originally Posted By: Liyla oh you mean when we meet get him to show me some id and stuff? but ya my aunt met someone off the net too and she's been living with him for a few years now and she seems really happy so im not too worried that this guy is lieing or anything...and my friend doesnt think so either and she has had experiance with meeting them off the net....shes seen the way he talks and stuff and even she thinks he's one of the good ones...shes also the one whos gonna be with me when we do meet Hopefully he will be one of the good ones, but don't just assume that. Probably he will be. However, you can never be too sure. Caution is necessary when meeting strangers ~ whether they are Intenet friends or otherwise. "The secret of success is constancy to purpose" - Benjamin Disraeli.

Re: I Need Advice....I Met Someone Online PDM #384525 09/15/09 01:19 AM
Joined: Sep 2009 Posts: 7 L Liyla OP New Member
OP Liyla New Member L Joined: Sep 2009 Posts: 7	oh im not assumin it....i know to be cautious and watch myself...i have my bro and his gf coming with me when i meet him so ya.....butim not gonna worry too much about it....the meeting aint for another month if there is gonna be one

Re: I Need Advice....I Met Someone Online Liyla #384530 09/15/09 01:48 AM
Joined: Dec 2004 Posts: 22,697 UK PDM True Blue Soulmate
PDM True Blue Soulmate Joined: Dec 2004 Posts: 22,697 UK	It sounds as if you are being very sensible ~ have a great time "The secret of success is constancy to purpose" - Benjamin Disraeli.

Re: I Need Advice....I Met Someone Online PDM #384685 09/16/09 07:33 PM
Joined: Sep 2009 Posts: 7 L Liyla OP New Member
OP Liyla New Member L Joined: Sep 2009 Posts: 7	well it aint happenign till next month anyways so we'll see how things go....but ya thank you all for the advice adn if theres anything else ya wanna share then feel free....i like to here everyones opinion

Re: I Need Advice....I Met Someone Online Liyla #384831 09/18/09 08:31 PM
Joined: Mar 2009 Posts: 46 L littlekaty Member
littlekaty Member L Joined: Mar 2009 Posts: 46	I met my boyfriend through an online dating site a year ago. We are both 28. We had been talking online for about a week when we decided to meet and we met that weekend at a local Starbucks and hit it off. I probably would not want to meet someone that lived far away but meeting local people on dating sites can be fun. Puff, Skittles, Bella and Maisie: My sweet little girl flock

Re: I Need Advice....I Met Someone Online littlekaty #384844 09/18/09 11:40 PM
Joined: Dec 2004 Posts: 22,697 UK PDM True Blue Soulmate
PDM True Blue Soulmate Joined: Dec 2004 Posts: 22,697 UK	I have heard that it can be a very successful way of meeting friends ~ and even partners "The secret of success is constancy to purpose" - Benjamin Disraeli.

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