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#84901 03/08/05 04:59 PM
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I know several intelligent women who married lazy / non-working guys with the theory that "he won't leave me, he has to depend on me". Which undoubtedly is the same mentality that has smart guys marrying bimbos and encouraging them not to work. So maybe it is a common insecurity amongst intelligent people, that they are not 'good enough' to keep a match any other way ...


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No, fortunately my mum was more intelligent than to think that way. She stayed with him because she was under the impression he really loved her when all he really loved was the fact he had someone to work for him. He fooled a lot of people that way, but in the end his true colours came through. Yes, I've heard of women who've stayed with husbands/partners because they were afraid of losing them too.

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I'm not sure that it was an afraid of losing them - as much as a security that they would stay smile


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