i have a best friend and i'm getting really jealous right now because she is getting all the attention of the guys. i used to like this guy a few years ago, and now i see him flirting with my bf. he is soo nice to her and so rude to me. :o( i don't like him at all though, but still i'm jealous.

also she told me last week that she got her first kiss and that just made me plain mad! AND she likes this guy in our class and he likes her back. this has never hapend to me i think.

i don't know what to do cause i don't want to seem unsupportive of her, and she's been kinda ignoring me because i acted wierd when she told me about the kiss.

so my question is, what should i do? i'm a jealous wreck but i'm admitting it. thanks to anyone who gives me advice.

by the way, anyyone who is reading this, i'm only in 7th grade. haha, i just put my age higher so i can get in this website.

Hello Rosel

When you joined the site, you should have given your true age because we are not allowed to have posting-members who are under 13. I have sent you some private messages.

As for your question, I know full well that under-13s can and do have boyfriends and romantic feelings ~ and that they can be strong and confusing. It's all to do with hormones.

In a few years time you will be able to give out advice on this subject, because you will understand. For now, it is all new and confusing. The best thing is not to worry about it ~ and not to even consider having a serious boyfriend until you are older and more mature.

Take care.

Dont be jealous i know i is hard and that is ok to have these feelings but it will come to you in time. I remeber before I got my current bf i was soooo angry at all my friends that got guys. I thought something was wrong with me but theres nothin wrong wtih you. Just wait love will come