Hi there, I have been seeing this guy for 3 weeks now and today that he told me that he is feeling overwhelmed and feels that things are moving too fast and that I need to relax and we need to take it slower, he sent me an email today to say that lets just slow this thing down and that he is also new at this and have made mistakes in the past, he says lets just take it one day at a time and chill - rome was not built in a day nor is a future, what does that mean?

it means take it slow back off a little

also means he could see something there and doesn't want to rush into anything that could cause the r'ship to implode. Take it easy - find out what's happening to make him feel overwhelmed and work to try and fix it.