Breaking up is hard Anyone agree? - 09/19/07 07:24 PM
Hi all I know that most of us on this forum topic has been in a break up and know it's hard.
The hard part is going day by day and really being yourself again.
I think one of the hardest part for me is not calling her every week or everyday or often. Because I was with mine for about 5 years and dated off and on before then and known her for 10 years or so. Now we split because I broke it off because she was unfaithful to me, well so she doesn't claim even though I didn't see it I just herd it from a good source and I had enough evidence before that she might of been before because of calls from guys her hiding things and doing stuff with them without me knowing.
Anyway have any advice or just ways to tell me so maybe i can not call her. Well I know it's, "dont' call her". But it's hard because you were with someone for so long knowing that they just dont' care anymore , how is this possible after all you both invested, hmmm weird...
IT's that feeling you get in your chest and stomach area and then you think about it and then you don't even have to think about it, feelings just come....But it's kind of one of those things where you go day by day and you don't want it to be like that, I just don't want to call her anymore, but it's not enough for me to just tell myself that and it's hard to just do it...
Any pointers? Thanks guys...
The hard part is going day by day and really being yourself again.
I think one of the hardest part for me is not calling her every week or everyday or often. Because I was with mine for about 5 years and dated off and on before then and known her for 10 years or so. Now we split because I broke it off because she was unfaithful to me, well so she doesn't claim even though I didn't see it I just herd it from a good source and I had enough evidence before that she might of been before because of calls from guys her hiding things and doing stuff with them without me knowing.
Anyway have any advice or just ways to tell me so maybe i can not call her. Well I know it's, "dont' call her". But it's hard because you were with someone for so long knowing that they just dont' care anymore , how is this possible after all you both invested, hmmm weird...
IT's that feeling you get in your chest and stomach area and then you think about it and then you don't even have to think about it, feelings just come....But it's kind of one of those things where you go day by day and you don't want it to be like that, I just don't want to call her anymore, but it's not enough for me to just tell myself that and it's hard to just do it...
Any pointers? Thanks guys...