So I finally decided to quit smoking pot (even though I barely smoked, I still don't think it was a big deal) because all my friends were xxxxxx and my ex (who I still have feelings for) was upset about it (we're still friends). But I was talking to her after I told her I was gonna quit and we were talking and she asked why her opinion meant so much and I told her because she was important to me. And she asked why I liked her and then I kinda HAD to tell her how I felt. She said that she didn't know what to think and I told her to think about it and that I would stop talking to her for the night. But now she is ignoring me, and our friend says that she just needs some time to think and that I shouldn't talk to her about it. I'm gonna wait until next week before I say anything unless she brings it up. I can understand her not wanting to talk about US and all, but completely ignoring me like I don't exist I think is a bit much, and it really hurts. I don't know. I guess I'm just feeling really lost right now. I can't smoke, so I lost the best escape I had. And I just don't know what to do anymore.

Sorry you're feeling lost right now. I think the right thing to do is to give her the space she needs. Maybe she'll come back to you, maybe she won't. But it's good to know she was in your life for awhile and was able to inspire you to give up a bad habbit. At least she knows you care for her.

How long has it been since you had that conversation with her?

Stay strong, and please don't fall back to your old habbit while things get sorted out.