Before you Talk to your Ex :
They will try to make you jelous.
I have been going out with a guy for about three months. He broke up with me recently because I didn't want to go all the way with him. However, just because your ex may have a girlfriend or is all over another girl they can be trying to make you jelous and for you to want them back. I know it's hard to deal with it because my ex is doing that to me but just try to ignore it as hard as it is to.
I'll tell you a story about my experience. I invited him to the mall with my friends and I. It was about a week that we had broke but we were still friends. He is in 12th grade and I am in 11th grade and so were my friends. My friends sister who is 3 years older than him also came. As soon as she came he was all over her. Yeah I got jelous a little but she told me she likes someone else and would never go out with him because he was a lot younger and didn't believe in that. Every time though he would put his arm around her or hug her he would try to get my attention to point out what he was doing. Then I realized that he was trying to make me jelous. After we went to the mall my best friend called him and asked why he was all over her sister. She put him on speaker but he didn't know I was there. He said thats just the way he is and he has a girlfriend anyway and he knew that she would tell me. So later I was talking with him and he said that he didn't have a girlfriend but they might start going out. I just said ok. Then the next day he kept talking about that and I just tried to ignore him. I just wanted to let people know this.
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