Before you Talk to your Ex :
it's the hardest thing
me and my ex broke up 4 months ago after a 4 year relationship. he lives 5 hours away and will be going to uni in oct if he gets the grades. everything was going fine or so i thought.. maybe he was not very happy but he never showed it so i thought he was equally as happy. when he broke up with me he told me it was because he didn't love me as much as he used to and that all we did was argue. we used to communicate over the phone. he'd ring every night or i would. i miss him more than ever and these past 4 months have been the hardest. i still love him more than ever and have feelings for him. but i guess you cant make somebody fall in love with you.
i rung him yesterday and we spoke for about half an hour. it was a comfort to me as i missed hearing his voice.
i've realised i musnt let to much out. just be friends and see what happens. but if he goes to uni i doubt that we will make another go of it and he will move on.
we met when we were 14 which i know is to young. we wernt in love at first but it grew over time.
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