Hey girls and guys...i am a 30 year old female...i know that what you ALL said is right...to let him see you like you were when you first met...but WHAT if its long distance??? we broke up after 6 months (we saw each other everyday back then)...he thinks i messed up cos i didn't return the i love you words when he did...now i am back in a different country...we broke up cos i hurt him with something i said (not serious though!) and he immediately broke up..thats when i told him that i love him and miss him...cos i was then far away and i knew i was right....he was still considering whether we should go back together...i stopped texting and calling...and gave him space..he went for a holiday for 5 weeks...i waited so maybe when he comes back he would come back...instead he found someone else..! now what?? i cannot make him see me! he jumped to another relationship before he sorted things out with me..When i told him how hurt i was and that i was waiting for him all the time.....he said that we had already broken up and he never said i should wait...how is that???...Yet after we broke up he still texted and kept me hoping...even during his holiday...then he stopped and i know why...it hurts...he was always concerned WHY i didn't return the words when he expressed himself...but i wasn't ready! i wanted that whatever i say will be not what i feel then, but what i feel forever! I need more time...Help..
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