Before you Talk to your Ex :
believe him when he tells you something
i was with my ex for 4 years...at first i found it hard to believe a word he said as he used to play with girls hearts but then i realized how much he loved me so i started trusting him
anyway like every couple we had our arguments...4 years later i find out that this girl that works with him likes him and she is trying to break us up...she will tell him stuff about me...such as i don't care about him and i don't love him...and she would do the same to me about him...anyway he didn't believe anything she said but me being stupid i believed everything she said to me and i went through his phone to see if its true...i never lie to him so i told him how i felt and then he mentioned how she has been saying the same thing to him about me but the only difference was that he didnt believe her and i did...he got mad at the fact that i've known him for so long and yet i don't trust him when he even changed for me...he also broke up with me for that reason but he said he still wants to be my friend...he calls me up everyday and i can still see how much he cares about me and wants to be with me...he even tells me that he still loves me as much as he did before.
so my advice is if you have a good man/girl and love him/her then trust them because your going to regret it...and if you didnt trust them and you broke up then give them sometime...let them be the one to make the move to talk to you...don't tell them you still love them...let them say it to you otherwie they are going to think your not over them and when they see your doing fine without them...they will realize that they need you as they are not fine without you...so they will be back.
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