Donīt forget, you and your ex broke up for a reason. *Something* was wrong. Usually many things are wrong in order for a relationship to break up. People donīt change instantly, and even when they really want to itīs still extremely difficult to change habits.
If you and your ex are trying to get back together, you need to accept each other for what you are *now*. For the full package, with flaws and good parts and everything. If you are both willing to take each other as you are, then things have a good chance of working. If you get back together assuming the other person will change X and Y to fit your needs, youīre starting on very shaky ground.
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