Before you Talk to your Ex :
Its hard for everyone in this situation
My ex broke up with me about 3 weeks ago. We were together for about 6 months. We instantly hit it off and we were in love. Well as far as I know it was like that. Everyday I would think of her, anything I would do I would think of her. After the first 3 1/2 months she moved out of her parentís house and got her own place. For the first couple weeks it was great, we were together all the time laughing and having fun. After a couple weeks I had a fight with my brother (my room mate). So I told my ex about this. She said it was ok and she understands and I basically stayed with her for a month or so. Then I went back home but I would spend at least 5 day at her house. Well to make the story short. She broke up with me saying that everyday was like a routine and she thought she wanted that but it wasnít. She said that her love for me disappeared a while ago but she didnít have a way of telling me because she knew it would hurt me. I'm a pretty understanding guy. I couldnít imagine what she had to go threw to tell me finally she wasnít happy. But as the person getting dumped of course it hurts allot. I still think of her everyday. I check my myspace all the time to see if sheís on witch I never used to do. I want to tell her I still love her. I know itís not the right thing to do though. I look at it this way. Although I have a feeling that she is the one of my life im not going to force anything to happen? People come and go in our lives for one reason. To make us a better person. Weather the outcome is good or bad think about what it might have changed for you as a person. You can learn from this experience and fix future problems. I'm not going to sit here and act like I donít want her back, I feel like I canít live anymore it hurts emotionally and physically. But let life take its course. Donít call her or text her or email her. Let her do her thing. If you really think that your relationship was as perfect to her as it was for you then she will try to reconnect with you. If nothing happens it just means that she wasnít feeling the same way as you were and you just have to understand. After all Time does heal everything that lives. STAY STRONG AND MAKE YOUR SELF HAPPY!
Thanks for reading peeps.
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