I agree they shouldn't be planned, my first one was planned and i had an audience of 13 year olds egging us on ! How stupid.
I am sure she will expect something when you take her home, just make sure you walk her to the door, if you dont feel comfortable and she will be nervous just give her a nice hug and maybe a peck on the cheek, that way she wont feel pressured and wont feel like you did not have a good time.
You have to ease into this, you know start with holding hands, hugs, pecks on the cheeks etc till its time for the big smoochie kiss !! This is sooooo sweet!!!
