Well he is not my good friend he is just an friend but the point is I would feel bad because he is a nice guy. I try to avoid him because of this whole situation to be honest.

I would try to play hard to get if that is what you are suggesting OC MOMMY but it is practically impossible because I can't stay away from her for more than a few days she is just that great. I'm sorry it's hard to explain but I really do appreciate all your advice!

Thanks everyone: if you have any other thoughts please respond!