I am so sorry your situation is made all the more painful by seeing her every day. We have all been in relationships where we are head over heals in love and the other person does not share the feeling. I do want to caution you to avoid any display of emotion at work such as the flirting you mention. If she does not appreciate your attentions, and presses the point with your employer, your job could be in jeapordy. I don't mean to discourage you or infer that you have been inappropriate in any way. The strict guidelines for inappropriate behavior that constitute sexual harrassment include anything that makes a fellow employee feel uncomfortable in the work place. It will not make things easier, but it would be such a shame to loose your job because of innocent flirtation on your part. Good Luck.
