As for holding her hand, the first time my boyfriend held my hand we were watching a show together and he whispered in my ear and asked if it was alright and then smiled at me. I thought that was really sweet. I said yes, and he held my hand with his right and with his left stroked down my arm and my fingers.
It's intimate but it's really nice to do, its giving her a choice but showing that youre interested in her.
