Well, yes, it did appear from your post that you had accepted that the problems were all on your side ~ but that isn't, necessarily, how it came over to me.
She didn't seem willing to work on the marriage and/or maybe had jealousy issues.
It seems that you have now found out what it was.
I hope that you can work something out, that will enable you to retain a good relationship with your children.
Last edited by PDM; 10/02/08 08:24 AM.