Just a couple of observations about stats.

One - if a woman works outside the home, she has the means to divorce, wereas a woman who does not, has very little choice.

I have read stats that say it is after the second divorce that the chances of a marriage lasting.

After a divorce, if the person does not cohabitate or get married again, indicates that they don't like being married. The same is true of widows or widowers that do not remarry, chances are they did not like being married.