Wow it is surely complicated.
I had once engaged in the same situation and I am the girl. I was torn between two lovers with my ex and my current bf... when im with my bf i dated my ex for about a month and engaged to physical and emotional situation. To the extent i decide to broke with my current boyfriend but before deciding on that I assess myself my future what I really want too....Then One day I realize its purely lust and vengeance so I end up not contacting him even though he contacted me... And now Im still with my current bf and I am happy that I choose over him.......
