Hello Lee

I wasn't suggesting that You were attempting to force her to like you, simply stating / confirming that feelings cannot be manipulated ~ as you know.

It was you who mentioned 'having issues with getting a woman into a relationship', so I wonder, then, what you meant by this?

The truth is that any man worried about 'getting a woman into a relationship' can do very little other than be himself ~ but perhaps a special version of himself ~ as I said before; extra clean, tidy, interesting and interested ~ but even then, if the chemistry is not right, there isn't much to be done.

I, too, would be concerned about unknown men viewing a girl on a webcam, so I think that this girl may need to be reminded of the potential dangers.

If all that she wants is friendship, though, then your 'longing inside that cries for her' may go unrequited.


"The secret of success is constancy to purpose" - Benjamin Disraeli.