Hi there,
Well, my boyfriend broke up with me a month ago. He said that he thought we weren't meant for each other. In this month I've been texting him like crazy, and I know that was wrong of me.
Yesterday I saw him again, and it was the first time we saw each other since 'the breakup'. I apologised for texting and he said that it was okay, that I shouldn't worry so much.
In these text messages I told him that I still loved him so much and really wanted to try again. He said: 'the more you're trying, the more i'm distancing myself from you. Eventually we'll meet again, calm down first and you'll get the answers to your questions yourself ('Do you still love me? And if not, did you love me at all?').
So yesterday, we met again, at a party. I talked to him for a minute or two, about his little sister and my mother. I didn't catch him looking at me or anything, but I really was trying to ignore him a little bit. Like I said, I apologised and he said it was okay. I said: 'I guess I can't kiss you?' He said no, but I kissed him on his cheek. Then we said goodbye.
So there's loads of stuff I'd like to do, but I'll need to know what you think of it first
.
I'm thinking about:
- Sending him a text message that says: I still love you, do I
have a chance with you?
- Giving him three letters: a normal one, a romantic one and one
that tells him straight out what I think?
- Doing nothing...
- Asking him if he'd like to go out with me some time...
Some things I'd like to add is: when we broke up I said 'I love you' and he said 'I love you too.' But when I'm trying he's distancing himself...
Can I do something to get him back? What can I do?
Thank you very much for all your advice!