I have a situation and was looking for help on it and found this place. As my first post I would need some help but dont mind providing help to others as well
Here is my situation:
Me: I know
Her: Well I just afraird it would hurt our friendship majorly!
Me: I know, I cant help it but at least we are good friends
Her: Every relationship has ended very badly for me
Me: I know what you mean haha.
Her: Well I dont think i am ready for another serious relationship yet!! I have always had a boyfriend I just want to expierence the single life but there is no problem with taking a risk anything is possible
Me: Well I hope you knowing now doesnt affect our friendship. When I got the tickets to the concert it was not with any intent but to hang out as friends
Her: Gary it is okay dont worry about it!! I am not the kind of girl I dont do that and I dont think that way
Me: I think the concert would be fun. As a friend was i wrong to think that way or would i have a chance
Her: Yes Gary as a friend you do have a chance you just have to give it time and dont be so down on yourself girls dont like that trust me
Me: thanks, for talking to me, you need to get some sleep. sleep good buddy ill give you a call this week
Her: Alright sounds good!
Her: Have fun and BE SAFE
my guy friend in all of this swears she is going to go back to this previous guy she was with and he treats her bad and i right now thinking of that is really screwing me up.
on the way to the party we kind of talked about how my friend and her broke up. i told her she has her side and he has his. and its not my intent to side with either. i did say he told me that he swears she is going back to brad (the ex ex) and he felt that guy is bad news and would get her killed. I told her i dont want to see anything happen to her (this was before my revelation to her)
So i am so messed up
Me (gary) has a thing for Lauren
Bryce (my friend) has a thing for Lauren still
Brad (i think is dangerous) dont know his thoughts but he seems the guy who would use her to "get some"
Lauren i dont know how she feels about me, is through with bryce but may have a thing for brad
I think she may have a thing for him i dont know but she has told me she is really confused on things right now (which i dont know what she is confused about). When i told her to be careful with brad (she says they are friends) she said he is not like that bryce just doesnt like him. i have seen his myspace ( he is listed 3rd on her friends i am 4th on her friends) he looks like an xxxxx that wouldnt care about her and she is not even on his friends list (like 50th i think) and all the people on his friends list are women. He just seems bad news and i would love to always be friends with her but it would crush me if she "chooses" him over me
Does she have feelings about me? Am i being stupid? I am 25 so its not just some teenager thing.
