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#285446 - 04/29/08 02:28 AM Re: I don't know what to do... [Re: joandboys]
TheTangeMan Offline
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Thanks for everybody's support, I think I have talked as much as I can talk before I actually act on anything. Now I just need to get her to open up to me so that we can start talking about getting help.

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#285455 - 04/29/08 07:37 AM Re: I don't know what to do... [Re: TheTangeMan]
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And you need to get her to a good qualified therapist.

Boosting her morale and self-esteem as much as possible will help, too.

When she's saying that no-one cares, it's because she needs proof trhat someone does care.

Subconsciously, I think that she is testing your love for her ~ not necessarily romantic love, but deep and lasting affection.
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#285495 - 04/29/08 11:06 AM Re: I don't know what to do... [Re: PDM]
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Yeah, I understand that. What would be things I could do to prove that though?

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#285900 - 04/29/08 11:38 PM Re: I don't know what to do... [Re: TheTangeMan]
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I don't know if this will do it or not, but I have been talking to a bunch of her friends and I have told them how she feels nobody cares about her, so I am throwing her a surprise party with everybody that do love and care for her. Does that sound like something that would cheer somebody up. The party is simply for that, and not for anything else, no birthday or anything like that, its all about her and how people care about her.

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#285964 - 04/30/08 12:11 PM Re: I don't know what to do... [Re: TheTangeMan]
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I'm just not sure about this ~ it could go either way.

She might feel happier that people care; or she might be feeling depressed and not in the mood for partying ~ and even a bit upset that you have been talking about her, and her problems, to other people.

I just don't know how it will go ~ I hope, though, that it will be successful.

How to prove that you care?
Just by being there for her, no matter what, and by having no expectations and making no demands.

Good luck. smile
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#286149 - 04/30/08 06:40 PM Re: I don't know what to do... [Re: TheTangeMan]
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Tangman,Good advice from PDM. I would caution the people you talk to to keep your confidence. In the future it might be better to keep the reasons to yourself. I agree with PDM about keeping her feelings confidential.
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#286209 - 04/30/08 10:18 PM Re: I don't know what to do... [Re: joandboys]
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Well they don't know why I'm throwing the party, but I just told everybody that I was throwing a party for her, so it's not like I went and told everybody how she was feeling.

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#286264 - 05/01/08 04:08 AM Re: I don't know what to do... [Re: TheTangeMan]
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Oh, good!
I just hope that she can enjoy it.
It might give her a boost ~ hope so!
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#286266 - 05/01/08 07:01 AM Re: I don't know what to do... [Re: TheTangeMan]
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Sounds like a wonderful fun loving gesture. Good idea.
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#286452 - 05/01/08 05:32 PM Re: I don't know what to do... [Re: joandboys]
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Thank you, now I have to just be patient for another month. I'll keep everybody updated if anything happens.

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