Plz I'm Dying For Advice, I'm really hurting... - 03/13/08 02:29 AM
My bf broke up with me. It wasnt horrible, but it was because I was so OBCESSED with finding something about him cheating, and I came out to him about it because I'm a really bad liar. Anyway, so three weeks later, he tells me, I'm "talking" to someone. We haven't dated or anything... and I just bursted out crying because I felt after two years that he should not have been trying to date someone else or be "talking" to them. We went through alot of things together. And I told him I felt that he didnt care about the relationship at all and he said "you think you are the only one hurting and that's not the case. I don't feel that right now is the right time for us to get back together, I feel that we need to work on a friendship bond first so you can trust me instead of staying in the relationship and you won't have any trust at all. Relationships are built on trust."
I was wondering if anyone had advice on how to get him back-- I'm working on myself. I'm taking this time to work on my issues in general and if I enter ANY type of relationship I won't have to deal with drama anymore. Also, if I don't call him, do you think he'll notice? We talk alot during the week. He calls me and I call him. Thanks ahead of time for the honest advice and have a great day!!
I was wondering if anyone had advice on how to get him back-- I'm working on myself. I'm taking this time to work on my issues in general and if I enter ANY type of relationship I won't have to deal with drama anymore. Also, if I don't call him, do you think he'll notice? We talk alot during the week. He calls me and I call him. Thanks ahead of time for the honest advice and have a great day!!