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#294711 - 05/26/08 05:10 PM Re: I don't know what to do... [Re: PDM]
TheTangeMan Offline
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Registered: 04/23/08
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Ok I have another question. Well I was at my uncles birthday party and she was with me. Well I was sitting down talking to somebody and she got up to go get some food and she surprised me by hugging me from behind around my neck. Also later that night, we were laying down and she layed her head on my chest and fell asleep. Once again this morning she gave me a hug with both arms around my side.

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#296036 - 05/29/08 05:21 PM Re: I don't know what to do... [Re: TheTangeMan]
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Hello,
I am new to these forums. and i have a question.

I have recently hugged a guy in a class and felt really great afterwards. He has a gf and I wanted to know if i should confront him and what i should say to him.

thanks a ton for hte advice

AlexaGrace

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#296061 - 05/29/08 06:00 PM Re: I don't know what to do... [Re: TheTangeMan]
joandboys Offline
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Hi Tangman, I am glad things are looking up. Since her mom kicked her out, I am sure she is glad that she has a place to stay. I am assuming you plan to keep her informed on the good progress so that mom doesn't worry too much and perhaps get into another fight. I also assume that your girlfriend doesn't know that you told her mom everything. You seem to have your friends trust now and if mom slips and tells her who told her the truth, your friend will feel betrayed. That shouldn't happen if you keep mom up to date on the good progress secretly. By the way, that cleansing thing doesn't work. It is an urban legend. My grandson did the very same thing and failed his drug test. I know that she is in a very bad situation because if she calls in sick, they will probably fire her. However, there may be a way to get around it if she is serious about cleaning up. Usually employers have drug programs with their health plans. If an employee comes in and voluntarily signs up for help and counciling I believe that they cannot fire them for that reason. It is when they test dirty and are found to be on drugs that they are fired. Someone could call the company anonymously and enquire. The only other option is to call in sick until she can test clean. That could take a couple of weeks. The tests nowadays are very sensitive. They do have test kits in the drug store. Don't get me wrong. I am not trying to suggest that she try to fool the system. I am merely saying that if she is serious about cleaning up, she should be given the chance without loosing her job. If she is forced to voluntarily sign up this might be the best thing that could happen. Now she might have to get into a program. She can always get a job. She only has one life.
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#296066 - 05/29/08 06:09 PM Re: I don't know what to do... [Re: AlexaGrace]
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Many people share casual hugs in a friendship way. Taking it slowly and waiting to see if he shows interest might be the way to go since he already has a girlfriend. If he does show interest, or wants to spend time with you, I would make sure that he is not cheating on his girlfriend before you consent to a date.
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#296102 - 05/29/08 07:37 PM Re: I don't know what to do... [Re: TheTangeMan]
PDM Offline

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Originally Posted By: TheTangeMan
Ok I have another question. Well I was at my uncles birthday party and she was with me. Well I was sitting down talking to somebody and she got up to go get some food and she surprised me by hugging me from behind around my neck. Also later that night, we were laying down and she layed her head on my chest and fell asleep. Once again this morning she gave me a hug with both arms around my side.


She obviously trusts you & really appreciates you being so supportive. smile
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#296106 - 05/29/08 07:40 PM Re: I don't know what to do... [Re: AlexaGrace]
PDM Offline

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Originally Posted By: AlexaGrace
Hello,
I am new to these forums. and i have a question.

I have recently hugged a guy in a class and felt really great afterwards. He has a gf and I wanted to know if i should confront him and what i should say to him.

thanks a ton for hte advice

AlexaGrace

Hi AlexaGrace & welcome.

I have made a new thread for your question:

'Hugs'
http://www.wineintro.com/forum/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=296104#Post296104
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