Thank you PDM for all your thoughts. Its so nice to know what other people think. I have used your advice and this is where we are now. We went out one night just the 2 of us to talk. He said he was very sorry about forgetting out anniversary and feels horrible that he hurt me. I told him that I didn't want to break up but if he needed space to figure things out that I would give him some. We are still living together and to my surprise nothing has changed. He is still there for me to talk to and welcomes me home with a hug. When I look into his eyes I can see sadness and love that had missing for a while. Maybe his soul searching will make our bond stonger?!? Time will tell I guess.
Thank you again for the help!
Nicole
