I think I'm going out with this girl; I truely love her and she has made clear the same feelings for me. We have a history together, strange, but our best stories are with one another. We recently began accepting our feelings for one another after we both saw others - usually unsuccessfully.
Problem is, I'm not sure what we're doing; We've been doing the whole bit. Holding hands, cuddling, kissing, whatnot. It seems to me we're dating - but then she says something about how shes happy with where we are and dosen't want to make it official just yet. This makes me wonder, what thing could make this any more 'official'? and why dosen't she want to go there? Seems to me that there isn't that far to go.
Please share your thoughts, this is the first person that I really feel a connection with on all levels.

Oh, and my previous question... we decided to remain friends.

Thanks - kurdt