So last night he tells me I am his best friend, he loves me but right now he is too stressed out to make decisions , he needs to destress and then he'll be able to work on the relationship. So at this time we will only talk once a week on Tuesdays and it won't be about the relationship but just about having fun and enjoying each other's company until he can feel less stressed. So I guess that's what I get for now unless I want out. I started signing up for school and preparing for my own career change here.. as I'm not convinced we will be together and I'm not hanging around waiting for him anymore.

THanks for all the feedback