Ive been married for a year and two months and 2 days ago she told me she cheated on me with a friend of mine we also have two kids together. I used to be in a gang i would leave my wife to go hangout with other friends of mine. I would come home late at night and leave her by herself with my son. during this time she said she had sex with him four times. Some of my freinds heard rumours that they had sex, i confronted her about it and she said she didnt do it and i asked my friend and he also said they didnt do it. I let go of it and it never came back up. her reasons why she did it was that she didnt think i wouldnt quit the gang. she said he made her not feel lonely and when i finally did quit she didnt know how to tell me.she was afraid that if she told me i would leave her and my 2 kids that it was eating her up inside evreyday. i feel real hurt and scared but i do feel like i can trust her. I just want to know if i shouldnt have to be scared.