Shauny, that's a terrible tragedy but as you say, things happen for a reason I guess and you now have a wonderful wife.

I often worry about my daughter's who's nearly 20 and doesn't have any boyfriend at all - we live in a small town and she doesn't get out much due to studies and work. She's not into going to clubs on her own and I worry she's going to end up married to her job and as she says, 'raising cats' instead. Let's hope one day fate will shine on her too.