RomanceClass.com Forums Romance Does He/She Like Me? Hey, 2 girrls like me...what should I do?

Okay, but I never planned on taking Kelsey to the movies.
Thanks for the help...

I have a daughter in Year 8 ~ which, I think, may be a similar age to 8th grade, but not sure?? Year 8, here, is for 12 - 13 year-olds. I think that this is too young for boyfriends / girlfriends, but I know that some of her friends are going out with boys. And I know that when I was young, kids had boyfriends / girlfriends within school, but not 'going out', so I can see why you have opted for this choice and I think that it is sensible.

Really, I think you & Katherine need to ask your & her parents if they are Ok with you going to the cinema ~ if that is what you want to do. Perhaps they could take you, but sit in a different place or see a different film? Or perhaps you could go in a group?

I think that you are right about making it clear to Kelsey that she is a friend but that Katherine is your girlfriend. You may all be very young, and some people might not think that this is a very serious matter, but it is only fair, on both girls to be honest with them.

Yes, similar. 8th grade is 13-14 so pretty much the same. I am perfectly fine with just being her b/f actually. But it seems that so many people "go out" in my school and my friends schools. I'm not saying I'm going to do what everyone else does, just that we wouldn't be the only people "going out" if we chose to.

Oh, definitly. My parents won't let me go anywhere alone yet so they could come and then sit in a different place. But I would have to consult with my and her parents to see if they are okay with us going to the movies, even though we have gone once before to the movies. Or we could go in a group - I know that is popular these days.

Yeah, I totally agree with you. I mean, I'm not going to marry her or anything...just be her g/f in middle achool & possibly high school. Yeah, I'll be honest with Kelsey...it'll be tough, and embaressing, but it will be the right thing to do.

Good luck!
You sound very mature for 13/14.

I ditto to what 3budgie said.

Thanks PDM!
I'll talk to her today.

Which do you like more? It's a hard decision, but one that must be made. Or if you are really concerned about either one's feelings, remain friends.
Ps. I'm sixth grade, and personally, I'd pick one or the other.

Oh, I like Katherien more, because we are basically bf/gf. I am a bit concerned with their feelings, but I think Kelsey will understand. She's a good friend...Oops, forgot to tell her today...definitly tomorow though!

Ooops, Katherine just read this whole post...I feel like such a loser...

I think you should talk to Katherine and ask her if she wants things to be different, and tell her friends to butt out of their best friends personal lives, It sounds like her friends alo have no lives, so they need to get some. btw, Katherine sounds very pretty