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Maybe he was scared of their reaction, because he was letting them down at the last minute, so got you to tell them for him.

Maybe he wants other people to think that he still has some kind of connection to you.

Maybe he just realised that he couldn't go , knew that you would be seeing them, so asked you a favour, without giving the matter any thought.

Maybe, as they were your friends, he thought that he should let you know and let you deal with it, because he doesn't have the same link with them that you do ~ I might do likewise in that situation.

I too sadly have had experience with this situation. Twice recently. It's really on a case by case situation. If you've tried a relationship for like 2 weeks, and then decide to be friends, it's a lil easier, when it's longer that you were together it's harder to be friends afterwards. I know it sucks, but hey sometimes the best of friends can turn out to be the best of lovers, etc. etc.

But they are actually more so his friends than my friends... if that makes sense =/

People are complicated creatures.
It's difficult to know what they are all about without talking to them
Sometimes talking to them makes it even more complicated!

If he isn't your boyfriend, then I suppose that he shouldn't be acting as if you can speak on his behalf.

Yah I agree with you PDM I just wanted to tell him to let the friends know himself
Thanks

okay, he called earlier to explain the reason why he didn't attend the party
i felt bad though... cuz i seemed kinda rude to him...

It sounds like mis-communication & misunderstanding.

Perhaps you need to have an objective chat ~ just to clear the air and make sure that you both know exactly whee you stand.

Would this be a good idea, do you think?

Hehe yahh, I think that would be a good idea PDM
I just want to know if he still sees me as a close friend, one he cares about =/ If i can't be in a relationship with him, the next best thing is to be friends with him.
That's why even though it's hard on me, I still try to act "cool" in his presence so that things don't turn sour

And I remember you saying that we cannot be friends if one party still has feelings, so I'm gonna try and let go of the relationship.
Thanks for the advice =]

Good luck & take care!