RomanceClass.com Forums Romance Dating I dont know what to do, freakin out

I hope that his wife doesn't think that you are trying to cause problems for them. I would say that they needed to sort out any relationship problems, without the involvement of 'another woman'. That's how you could be considered, if you are not very careful ~ so do be careful.

I hope she doesnt think that either. I have no wish to hurt her. but as twisted as this is gonna sound i view her as the aother woman. she came out of nowhere and destroyed what we had and maybe im wrong for feeling that way but i cant help it. still i'm trying to be careful im not even sure what all this means yet.

Are you sure she "came out of nowhere and destroyed what we had?" Your ex made his own choices all along the way; neither you nor his wife forced him to do anything.

I agree completely with PDM --- maybe he and his wife should try to sort out their problems, before he starts a new (or renews a) different relationship.

i agree he should..if he leaves her i dont think it should b for me or anyone else. I think it should be bc they decided they were not right for eachother. and ur right no one forced him to do anything but mistresses in general are usual sought after..i know it prob doesnt make sense but for me thats how i always viewed her

Be careful