Originally Posted By: Chikiwau
.... the truth is that I do NOT want to be his friend because I want to be his girlfriend.

As Keruru indicated, the best boyfriends / girlfriends are also friends. I would say that my husband is also my best friend.
Originally Posted By: Chikiwau
I want to call him so bad but I have heard that the more I call or text him the farther away i am pushing him. which is exactly the opposite of what i want.

Who told you that?
Did he say that?

He phoned you a lot ~ did that push you away?
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PDM, so you think i should ask him to meet up with me in some place so that i call tell him everything?

I don't think that he knows the truth about how you feel, because you didn't phone him, you let him down a couple of times, you changed your status, you blocked him, you ignored him and you smiled when he broke up with you ~ and you called him by the wrong name.

Me may feel that you were never really interested in him.
You could meet up, or you could write him a letter to clarify things ~ but you need to tell the truth this time.
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What if he break my heart once again? What is he says that he doesnt want to try again and that he doesnt want to give me false hopes?

It will still be better for both of you to know the full truth.

He said that he had to be honest with himself.
You need to be honest, too.

Who knows how this will work out.
I may be very wrong, but I have the feeling that you may have broken his heart.

And as Kirbygirl says, he sounds like a nice person. smile

Last edited by PDM; 05/24/10 02:42 PM.

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