Allright first off I have been friends with this girl for alittle over a year now and have developed feelings for her. After talking with my parents they say they have seen that she might be attracted to me. The problem is that another of my friends tried to ask her out and was let down. Now he is being somewhat aggressive whenever I choose to be near her over him or if I mess with her playfully. I'm slightly torn on the inside as to what to do as I don't want my friend to sabatoge the possible relationship.

You know this is a forum about birds dont you?

also-sorry to hear about your situation

Takki's post is appropriate in this section (Romance - does he/she like me?) --- I don't know if PDM moved it or what, but anyway ----- Can you ask your friend straight out about sabotaging the (possible) relationship? If you did go out with the girl, would your friend be really hurt/angry? etc. Maybe you could talk it out...

Yes, this section is correct for this post.

Welcome Takki

Your friend must feel upset and perhaps humiliated & angry that this girl turned him down. He may really care for her and be feeling terrible. It could hurt him if she chooses you over him ~ and that is sad.

However, you cannot really let this person prevent you becoming friendly with this girl if you like each other.

Maybe you need to talk to him and explain that you mean him no harm but that you really like this girl yourself and hope that this won't harm your friendship with him.

Good luck!

Okay first dont let your friend get in the way of the girl you love. And dont be afraid of her letting you down its just a girl not a god. You may love her but if she doesnt know how much u love her then she doesnt deserve you and it will be a good life learning experience

Okay hold on, did your friend know you liked her? Because if he did then he is the wrong, but if he didn't then he had every right to ask her out and be mad at being let down and then finding one of his friends flirting with his crush. You should have asked if it was okay first if you really don't want to end up losing a friend! For now though, talk to your friend and until you do take it easy with the girl okay. Simply hi and bye and a hug maybe, not too much okay!

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