hello. um i just knew this girl that i liked for a while and my friend just started helping me talk to her by telling her to talk to me but im not sure how she feels about me but i just want to know what to say to do to get more close to her. because im interested in her.

just strike up a conversation! it can be rough sometimes, expecially if you're shy, but just start talking!

wat should i talk bout then?

anything really =]

how old are you?
ask her how her day is going, for starters.

If your a good listener and ask her what her favorite thing in the whole world to do is she will do the talking. Everyone likes people who let them talk about their passions. Just say, "You,dont'say" "Really" "Well I'll be darned" "That's amazing" "Your encredible" "I never realized" "Tell me more"
"this is facinating" "How do you know all this?" All the people at parties that have a crowd around them talk this way. They have learned the verbal skill to captivate their audience. They never say much, but they learn a lot and they are very popular. That is because people are complimented that someone is interested enough to listen to them.

anything else?

and im 15

be genuine about it. Don't pretend with her- I'm sure you'll actually be interested in what she's saying, but if you're not, dont pretend.

If you're 15- talk about school, do you have classes together? or at least similar assignments?

yeah just math but its like nothing special and no one likes it

hahahaha i hear ya' there!! perhaps you can ask her if she wants to get together to work on the homework? I was not a fan of math at all, but it was cool to have friends there to work through it with me.

I agree with zoo, definitely be genuine. I didn't mean to imply that you should pretend interest. I just mean that you only have to say a few words to keep a conversation going.

Hello johnwen305
Welcome!

You have been given some good advice.

Other conversation ideas: favourite / least favourite ~
~ foods, films, books, TV programmes, sports, actors, singers, music, school subjects, animals, etc.

Or what she does in her spare time, or wants to do after school, or where she goes for holidays or at weekends, etc.

You are not the only one to ask similar questions, so do have a read through the other posts.

Good luck!
And try not to worry about it ~ just relax and be friendly.

oh haha but then like she broke her Achilles and i think she goes home so her parent dont yell at her. so wats the best thin to do talk to her?

i talk to her on the computer but then like i ask her question but she never ask question just rarely not really sure wat to do lol but then my friend think that she has a thing or likes me seomthing like that

By that I think you mean, she hurt herself and you feel talking about the other things would feel weird. Well, take the approach that if there is a 400 pound gorilla in the room, you don't ignore it. Just ask her how she if feeling or start out by simply sending a get well card. If you see her, Ask how her achilles tendon is healing.

A computer is different. All there is is words so you are stuck if the person doesn't talk much or ask you things. Before you get on the computer, write down things you think might get answers like: Do you have a hobby? Do you have a best friend? What class do you like best? Who is your favorite singer? What movies have you seen lately? Do you like comedies or sad movies? Your bound to discover something that gets a conversation going. Maybe it will take a while because she is shy.

im 15 too. heres from a girls point of view (sinc ei am one) theres this kid i like in my math class too. wow thats funny. lol. but if you like her and have NOTHING to say. then be something like this:

"doesnt math suck?" or something like that lol. when she answers you just keep the conversation going. tell her what subject you DO like (if any) and then ask her what she likes. it could go something like this:

you: doesnt math suck?
her: yeah.
you: i like gym though, i like to work out (lol)
her: oh?
you: what do you like?
her: well.....


or something like that. lol. just keep asking her questions. and turn to face her//give her eye contact. if you do that and act like your interested in what she has to say, eventually you two could be more than friends.

Nice information that you have shared with us.