ok so here it goes...again... just to let u kno this is an acutall real problem that idk how to deal with and need advice please?? ok so i like my friend....yeah sad but i do and theres nothing ican seem to do about it): and im so jealous of one of my friends): i dont want to be but i am....and im so happy couldnt get any better then when somthing happens of me getting jealous i become so sad its not ok...my friend deserves better and i try not to bring it up try to make this person think im totally good and they dont need to weorry i cant i bring it up. And i feel bad cuz this person deserves better and i want to treat him beter itry its just when i get jealous i have no control of wat i say and do and it hurts i hurt i want it to stop but. and its not my friend its me wat do i do?????

Hello Katie

You are 14 ~ and at 14 life is confusing.

Your hormones and your feelings are all over the place ~ and this can affect your moods.

Just try to just accept this, first of all, and it will make you feel better.

I get the impression that you have crushes, which soon disappear, or result in 'unrequited love', and you have boys showing an interest in you, where you don't know how to respond.

Just take a deep breath and try to be calm.

It is difficult growing from a child to a woman.

How do you know if a boy is good boyfriend material or someone who will hurt you?

How do you deal with unwanted attentions of boys?

How do you show a boy that you like him, without making yourself look bad in any way?

How do you deal with friends, who may have what you want ~ boyfriends, nice clothes, etc?

You sound like a nice girl, so just be your pleasant self and your relationships will sort themselves out.

There will always be people who seem to have what you want ~ but remember, you may have what they would like, too. The grass may seem greener on the other side, but you may be luckier than you think. Jealousy will only do you harm.

Keep yourself safe ~ that is very important ~ and accept that teenage life can be a bit of a roller coaster ride!

Take care

shank's!! for the info(: and guidence. And this person is really nice so its not really him hahaha its me!!