There is a huge amount of pressure that goes along with the First Time in sex. Media bombards people with messages, parents give messages, friends give messages. Try to tune ALL of those out, and think about yourself. How do you feel about it? How do you feel about your relationship? For better or for worse, this will probably be something you remember for the rest of your life. Will your decision be one that makes you proud?
You need to do what is best for *you*. Do not let yourself be pressured into anything.
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