About 10 years ago I started an affair with a married woman. After three years, her husband found out and we were limited to only once a month contact.

Now we are down to twice a year contact (by mutual consent) but that is not enough for me. Plus, the contacts are becoming less and less affectionate (in the broadest sense of the word--we are not lovers anymore).

I still love her but her feelings are of friendship (with a tiny bit of love she says when her arm is twisted). Should I pursue this after seven years of not seeing her or should I give it up.
I don't want to give it up.

GeorgiePie