What make you think she will leave if she hasn't in 10 years?
I's say do yourself a big favor and walk away it may hurt now but in the long run I think you will be much happier. There are plenty of single women who probably would love to meet you.
I'm sorry if I step on toes but to be very honest with you I think people weither it be male or female that are having affairs with married people are just letting themselves in for a lot of heartache and like the saying goes if they are willing to do it with you you better believe they are willing to do it to you. If fact when you think about it they already are because they are having an affair on you with their spouse. So think about that one.
