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It's difficult to know what is going on here ~ yet again!

Well tomorrow I'm going to eat upstairs on the balcony...he has never ate up there (I don't know if he knows it is there) but if he follows me up and sits up there, then I know something is up.
I wish there was a rule or something, like he eats on one side of the cafeteria and me on the other side...

I ate upstairs today! (I snuck up there) I can just imagine him walking around the cafeteria looking for me! I even saw him walking outside, he didn't find me! I guess this will give me space and peace, at least while there is nice weather or until he finds my hiding place...

Well accept his friend request so that makes him think that u really dont care about the relationship and dont ever message him make him message you first. Okay
Melissa

Dagny do you have to eat in the cafeteria? Are you in highschool? If so than that explains that you do have to eat there. I am just wondering if you have to eat at the same place he does because I am not familiar with your situation. Otherwise, it seems to me that you still have feelings for him. It is ok if you have feelings for him, they just do not go away overnight. If you can try to take yourself completely out of his life.

Lady-I am in college and there is only one cafeteria/place to eat though it is a pretty big dining room. I don't have the time or money to run off campus and eat at a different restaurant so I eat there.
No I do not have feelings for him. I just really wish he would leave me alone and stop watching me. And I do not think he deserves to be my friend. His behavior and actions at our break up and later shows how much of a jerk he is. And I am only friends with people I like and who are nice people.
After all, alot of the times he talked to me in the cafeteria (as friends) he was trying to put me or someone else down. (apparently he doesn't like retarded people).
I don't know if I can try to get out of his life, I'd just like him out of mine.

It must be very trying, but you have your studies and there are lots of other people there ~ presumably you have friends there ~ so try to ignore this and not let it get to you. Some people get a thrill out of winding other people up.