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Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
Hi, I met a 20yr (she found me)through my radio program. It has been 3 months but we have yet to actually go out. She has sent me numerous photos of her (and a recently very sexy one)and we talk on the internet when we meet. She tells me that she loves me, that I am very important and special to her. Everytime I ask her out, she has something else planned. I have confronted her about it and she has acknowladged it (that it is not fair to me)--wow, what insight!! But she does not offer a time that is good. In the mean time of course, I am going out with other girls and having a great time. I am by no means waiting at my house hoping that someday she will get her priorites straight. I like her attention and sexy pics, (she has asked me to send some sexy pics of myself too..which I will not do)

So...I am confused, she seems to have a high interest in me, yet we can never get our plans together. Is it because she is immature or inconsiderate? (Although she appolgizes) Why would someone do all this and not proceed further? We have told eachother that we want to be "bf and gf", so whats the deal?

(Given that we have not offically gone out together, I think I reserve the right to date other girls in the mean time)--thank you




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My guess, and it's a pure guess, is that she is sending you photos of someone else and is ashamed to meet you in person.

However it may be simpler than that... she may just be too shy to meet you in person. Maybe if you sent her your photos she might feel that she was dealing more with a person than a faceless internet connection.

Give it a shot! George



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