Romantic Forums! Get the answers you seek quickly and easily! If you can't find what you need
here amongst our tens of thousands of tips and questions, be sure to Post in our Romantic Forum!
We've got over 9,800 members ready to give you a hand!
A Love Quote
Love one another and you will be happy. It's as simple and as difficult as that. --Michael Leunig

Wanting more....

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I have this guy and he he is really nice. He is very shy and I really don't understand the signals at all. Sometimes he is more talkative and sometimes he is very quiet. We play games online (he will instant message me) and we stay online sometimes at night until 3 in the morning. I guess my question is, how do I tell if he wants to be my friend or if he likes me in a different way. When we talk online he will tell me not to change, and there should be more people in the world like me. When we are together he will tease some, but not as bold. Sometimes, online he will play picking on me and things but he always says he was kidding, if that matters. I have feelings for him...but I don't want to get hurt either. Most of all I don't want him to feel unconfortable around me, I am scared he will be able to see that I am starting to care more for him than just friends. Please help me. Thank you so much.

RomanceClass.com Advice
The start of a relationship is always tentative and oh so interesting and frustrating all at the same time. I know what you're going through.

It sounds like you have a good beginning going and you have a good level to start from. Friendship can often lead to more. And even if your feelings are stronger than his, that friendship can be enough for a while. Guys don't tend to spend so much time with someone who isn't important to them, so you can be sure you are an important part of his life. I can see why you like him.

As to talking with him about how he feels about you, that's going to take some gentle prodding. You might start joking about being his girlfriend and see how he takes it, and then if he gets all negative, you can always say you were just kidding. He sounds very shy so you will be the one to make the moves and break the ice first. But even if you do it clumsily and he just wants you as a friend, then it sounds like he's a nice enough guy that he'll be flattered and remain friends with you, which is really what you want.

I hope it all works out and definitely keep in touch!

-- from Marc
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

Add RomanceClass  to Twitter Add RomanceClass  to Facebook Add RomanceClass  to MySpace Add RomanceClass  to Del.icio.us Digg RomanceClass+ Add RomanceClass  to Yahoo My Web Add RomanceClass  to Google Bookmarks Add RomanceClass  to Stumbleupon Add RomanceClass  to Reddit

Speak Your Mind - Share your Thoughts on this Question!

All Advice in the category - Flirting and Friendship

Browse our Answer Database
- Browse Answers by Question Category
- Browse Answers by Age Group
- Browse Answers by Date of Response

Please read through the advice on this site before you Submit your Own Question! We have thousands of pages of valuable advice that can immediately help you with your situation.

Sparkly Irridescent Glitz Gel

Going to a party or special event? What to feel special no matter what you're doing? Roll on some glitz! Perfect for adding a special bit of sparkle to your day or evening.

Buy Glitz Gel at EclecticLady.com

Bookmark this site so you can reference it any time you need romantic / relationship info in the future!

Add Romance+Class+Website+ to Twitter Add Romance+Class+Website+ to Facebook Add Romance+Class+Website+ to MySpace Add Romance+Class+Website+ to Del.icio.us Digg Romance+Class+Website+ Add Romance+Class+Website+ to Yahoo My Web Add Romance+Class+Website+ to Google Bookmarks Add Romance+Class+Website+ to Stumbleupon Add Romance+Class+Website+ to Reddit


Follow Me on Pinterest

Romantic Tshirts, Bags, Mugs and More!

Love is Patient
Love is Patient ...
Deeply Loved
Deeply Loved ...
Random Kindness
Random Kindness ...

These are just a small selection - Visit the RomanceClass Shop!

Join This Newsletter!

RomanceClass on Facebook

Join This Newsletter!

Past Issues

| About RomanceClass | Advertising | Privacy Policy | Submit a Suggestion |
All content copyright 2013 Minerva WebWorks LLC. All rights reserved.

this site is for amusement only - professional advice is not being rendered

origami wedding favors