Hi,

I've gotten to know both of the guys more. The first guy is very sweet and friendly and is falling in love with me (his words, not mine). We have great conversations, but I don't feel the 'butterflies', if you know what I mean.

The second guy doesn't want a relationship and is kind of a player. Nevertheless, two days ago we had a very fun conversation and found out that we have a lot in common. But the day after that, on his birthday party, he was flirting with these two blonde girls. The first guy told me that he had a different girl every week. The problem is that I do feel the butterflies when I talk to him.

What do you think I should do now? I've already told the first guy that maybe we shouldn't be talking so much, because I'm not capable of returning his feelings. I don't want him to get hurt. If I really listen to my heart, I should go for the 'player.' But the problem is that he's not capable of returning MY feelings, which makes it a pretty futureless situation.

RawHeart

Last edited by RawHeart; 12/16/07 01:26 PM.