Yes, progress.
As we said before, there was always the chance that it concerned someone else, & not you.
You still don't know what is going on, so don't torture yourself about it.
She seems to need time to sort herself out.
She is only 19 ~ without a mother and with a disabled father. That makes her very vulnerable.
I think that in certain situations, some people go into 'freeze' mode. They just cease doing anything, until the situation is resolved. It is not even deliberate, but rather something that they cannot help.
'Major life changing news' sounds pretty major. Let her sort herself out.
And she can't discuss it until it has been sorted out, so try to be patient a while longer.
Last edited by PDM; 01/01/10 03:03 AM.
