Yea this one is a toughie. I've been wrestling with it. If he finds someone else it would be sad but only with me to blame. Its like the lesser of the two evils here.

Risk opening up to him again and rolling the dice, or saying nothing and playing the waiting game.....the way the odds work I could lose either way.

Body language is easier to read though...this guy is every bit as cautious and guarded as I am so its a slow going thing either way. Guess i'm going to just stay on the fence for now. Thank you for helping me sort through it smile I'm headed back to the wine forum now!