Do I tell my boyfriend I cheated on him? Or the guilt will be enough?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old FemaleI had a boyfriend at college. I went home on break and got back with my ex of four yrs who i deeply loves and he loves me back. I came back to school and told my boyfriend here i got back with my ex...which hurt him. I then slept with the ex boyfriend at college...I feel horrible. Im not sure if it was because he is here and my boyfriend is not. I still like him though. The college boy has everything good the ex is not so good and my parents dont even like him. Without hurting either any more what do i do? Do i tell my boyfriend i cheated on him? Or the guilt will be enough
RomanceClass.com AdviceYou cheated on your college boyfriend with an ex which made the college boy an ex. Then you cheated on your home boyfriend with your college ex.
And now you want to know whether to tell your home boyfriend the truth or let your guilty conscience be your punishment.
My advice is to step back and give some serious thought to what you really want. Take a week or so to give yourself space and time to decide what you want to do.
I also advise you to tell your home boyfriend the truth... otherwise you will have that "lie" between you for as long as you are together.
Good luck! George
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