I am in love with 3 different men.We often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female I have put myself in an awkward position and I can't seem to control it. I am in love with 3 different men. One who excites and motivates me to be a good person, but is really busy all the time. The other cherishes me and loves to take care of me, but he is twice my age and I can't seem to tell anyone about him. And the third is my ex-boyfriend, who just recently moved out of town and have kept in contact with. I can't choose one because each fills some kind of need of mine. How do I choose? Or better yet, how do I get over this neediness? I am 24 years old. User Submitted Advice from a 31-40 year old Female think it over Remember that you can be polygam and can love more than one partner. My advice is to try to break up with all because what I see here is that you cant be happy with only one of them. Try to find someone new with all that you need. Its easy to get stuck to one person. I have one boyfriend who I spend most of the time with. But I also has a friend who Im very close too who give me the rest I need to feel good. He are so near boyfriend it can be without my boyfriend get jealous. It work out fine for us three and all know each other.It has been this way in 10 years now. So sit down and think over the situation. And try to get distance on your boyfriends. The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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