My boyfriend was my first everything and I thought I loved him, now I am not sure.



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I have been with my boyfriend for about 3 and a 1/2 years, I recently cheated on him with another guy. My boyfriend was my first everything and I thought I loved him, now I am not sure. The man I cheated on him with and I both thought it would be best to say nothing to no one but now I feel so guilty. I am not sure if I should tell anyone or just let it be and try to get over it myself. Also I am not sure if I should just break up with my boyfriend and just not tell him to avoid hurting him really bad. Please help.




User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
just hold it in


Don't tell him what you did because all the pain in the end isnt worth it. Just hold it inside. Listen I'm going throught it now

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