We broke up because of my constant nagging and callingWe often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions. Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female I just met my ex like three months ago.He's 29 and I'm 20.We broke up because of my constant nagging and calling.I had a bad attitude problem and he said I got to get myself together before we can get back together.I miss him and just want to call him all the time.Please tell me what to do?The only reason I had a bad attitude problem because he was busy all the time and I hardly got a phone call from him.It just made me feel like he didn't want me. I understand he has a very demanding job but I always thought that if you cared about a person you still made time for them.Am I being unreasonable?Help!!!!! User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female Forget about him Oh Sweetie Men have become some amazing creatures, but at the same time they have become some amazing @$$****$. I just recently had a boyfriend who just decided that he needed more frome me than I could give him. I drove over an hour to see him everyday wether I had to work or not. I always paid for everything since he "never had any money". I shunned off a lot of my friends to be with him during all of my free time. Now he is gone and with another girl- a co-worker I may add, and I am left ALL alone. He didn't return my phone calls, no explanations, no sympathy, no empathy, and worst of all no emotions. GONE. Now the coward can't even call me to exchange any of our things that were left behind, so my advice to you is to be selfish. Forget about him and care about you and you only. I was constantly nagging because I was burnt out, tired, and suspicious because I have been lied to plenty before. There is obviously an underlying trust issue with this man, and I really don't think that he is worth your time or energy to waste. Good relationships are supposed to give your energy, not take it from you. I have been through hundreds of break ups and the "men" keep finding more childish ways of going about the break-ups. It basically amounts to what is in their pants the majority of the time and there is nothing that you can do about it. I am sure my ex has not been nauseated, restless, inconsolible, crying rivers, or even thinking about me, so why should I be doing it about him. P.S. Good luck future ex's ex. HA hA The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer
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